Losing a loved one is one of life’s most profound challenges. As families navigate grief, one of the most meaningful ways to honor a life well-lived is through a thoughtfully designed and permanently installed memorial marker. Whether you buy a new granite headstone or bronze marker, or simply updating last dates engraving on an existing headstone, the process can feel overwhelming. This is especially true when you’re coordinating with specific cemeteries like Fairhaven Cemetery, Harbor Lawn Memorial Park, or Holy Sepulcher Cemetery. Finding a trusted monument provider who understands cemetery requirements, materials, design, and engraving quality is essential and that’s where American Headstones Company excels.
Understanding Your Cemetery’s Rules and Requirements
Every cemetery has its own guidelines regarding what types of monuments are allowed, acceptable materials, maximum sizes, installation procedures, and placement locations. Before you begin selecting a design or material, it’s vital to understand what Fairhaven Cemetery, Harbor Lawn, and Holy Sepulcher allow:
- Size and footprint limits: Cemeteries often have strict measurements for monuments to maintain a uniform appearance and allow for maintenance equipment access.
- Material restrictions: Most cemeteries allow granite or bronze due to their durability and ease of maintenance. Some may have specifications around the finish or edging.
- Installation standards: Cement foundations, anchor bolts for upright markers, and specific placement rules are common.

When you work with a knowledgeable provider like American Headstones Company, these requirements aren’t guesswork. We proactively verify cemetery rules and coordinate with cemetery staff, ensuring your memorial meets all specifications before fabrication begins.
Choosing Between Granite and Bronze, What’s Right for You?
One of the first decisions families face is material choice. Both granite and bronze have stood the test of time in memorial environments — but each has distinct benefits:
Granite Markers
Granite remains the most popular material for headstones and markers because it is:
- Extremely durable: Resistant to chipping, scratching, and fading.
- Available in many colors: From classic black and gray to deep red and blue tones.
- Customizable: Etching, laser engraving, and surface polishing allow for intricate designs, portraits, and text.
Granite is ideal for both upright monuments and flat markers. Its natural beauty and permanence make it a timeless choice for commemorating a life.
Bronze Markers
Bronze is typically used in mounted plaques or on granite bases. Its advantages include:
- Elegant contrast: Bronze plates on granite bases offer both visual appeal and long-lasting readability.
- Detailed casting: Allows for sculpted elements like raised lettering, symbols, and relief artwork.
- Aging with character: Over time, bronze develops a natural patina that many families find enhances its beauty.
Choosing between granite and bronze often comes down to personal preference, design style, and budget. At American Headstones Company, we guide you through both options so you can make an informed decision that honors your loved one.
Why Last Dates Engraving Matters and When It’s Needed
If you already have a marker at Fairhaven Cemetery, Harbor Lawn, or Holy Sepulcher and a family member has passed more recently updating the last dates engraving is an incredibly meaningful act. It ensures the memorial reflects the full span of your loved one’s life and preserves the continuity of the family marker.
Last dates engraving might be needed when:
- A spouse or partner passes away after the original memorial is installed.
- A family member wants their dates added to an existing family monument.
- You want to correct or update information that was previously inscribed.
- While the task can sound simple, proper engraving on existing stone requires expertise.
- Matching fonts and depth: Seamless integration with existing text.
- Careful material handling: Avoiding chips or damage around the engraving area.
- Cemetery notification: Many cemeteries require approval before any work is done on an existing marker.
American Headstones Company handles all of this for you from design proof to final engraving with respect and precision.
The Importance of Professional Design and Proofing
When you’re investing in a permanent memorial whether a brand-new monument or an updated engraving, seeing a design proof before production is essential. A proof lets you:
- Visualize layout and spacing
- Confirm fonts, symbols, and images
- Approve spelling and dates
- Adjust positioning and sizes
At American Headstones Company, every client receives a custom digital proof. You review it, request changes, and only when you’re fully satisfied do we move into fabrication. This ensures accuracy, alleviates stress, and gives families peace of mind.
Fabrication and Installation, What to Expect
Once your design is finalized, the next steps are fabrication and installation. This is where quality matters most.
Fabrication
Our craftsmen use state-of-the-art equipment and tried-and-true techniques to:
- Precisely cut and polish granite
- Cast and finish bronze plaques
- Achieve deep, clear engraving
- Apply ceramic photos, emblems, or custom imagery
- The result is a memorial that will endure for decades — a lasting tribute you can visit with pride.

Installation
Proper installation is always the responsibility of the cemetery. Please check with the front office for details.
For last dates engraving on existing stones, we schedule the work at a time that minimizes disruption to cemetery operations and your family’s plans.
Why Choose American Headstones Company
Selecting a memorial provider is a deeply personal choice. Here’s why American Headstone Company should be yours:
Experience and Integrity
We understand cemetery rules, manufacturing standards, and the emotional significance of every memorial we create.
Comprehensive Service
From design consultation to final installation, we manage every step — including cemetery communication, approvals, and scheduling.
Quality and Craftsmanship
We use only the best materials and proven techniques so your granite or bronze marker stands the test of time.
Respect and Compassion
You’re more than a customer you’re a family honoring a loved one. We treat every project with care, patience, and dignity.
Competitive and Transparent Pricing
We provide clear estimates, no hidden costs, and options to fit a range of budgets without compromising quality.
Whether you’re at the beginning of selecting a new granite or bronze marker for a loved one at Fairhaven Cemetery, Harbor Lawn, or Holy Sepulcher or you simply need to add last dates engraving to an existing memorial, the process doesn’t have to feel stressful or uncertain.
Every life deserves to be remembered with dignity and grace. Let us help you create a memorial that does just that with quality that will last for generations. Contact American Headstones Company today for a consultation and begin the process with confidence.
